I think, Men are the beautiful, powerful and emotional creature ever god has made.  In our society, Men has been ignored since long time.. People mostly give more attention to girls, based on fact that girls has to leave the home one day and need to settle down at new family, with new people (god has given this power to women, I agree with it but at the same time, men has much more responsibility to take care of his wife and make her always happy)


On the other hand, Men always has been counted as ignored alien. From the birth, boys had been treated in more strict manner than the girl… most of the people always have high expectations from a boy from his early age since he is going to take the more responsibility on his shoulder in the future. But, I really don’t know who cares about his feelings, his emotions…


Like the girls has dream for his life partner, boys also carry the same dream.. the difference is that, its easy for girls to express their feelings.. not in the same case with men…He will think that its not really good time to think about the feelings or rather to focus on study and then career…to build his family.. to help his younger siblings… and eventually the time passes out… he will loose the time for himself…
In most cases, Men sacrifices a lot than a woman.


He sacrifices his time and works long hours for his family, (on the other hand, his family members might think that he does not have time for themselves now, he is changed, when he comes after work ,His expectation is to spend some good time with his family, to have either lunch/dinner together but the reality might be different, either his wife waiting for him so she can complain about his mother, same thing goes for his mother, he never sees his children in workdays. Either they out/slept/not in good mood to talk with dad, in spite of expecting love or warmness, he gets different environment).


Men always focused to always be happy, (does not matter about the troubles and problems he might go through but he’ll never let other know).


He always hides his emotions. (it does not mean that, he is does not have emotion. When girl gets married and leaves home, its always father that its being more sad.. Mother can even cry but the dad wont’. He will never cry in front of all. He will think that, his tears would break his daughter.. )


He will always takes care of everyone first and then he will think for himself. ( I really don’t remember when my dad bought new clothes for himself, but I always remember that he never came empty hands for me..)   


He will keep quite and won’t say anything when things don’t go well (I fall under this category..people are considering me as weak and taken my silent as granted, but the fact is I don’t want to hurt anyone by words…people don’t understand this and eventually men has to suffer emotionally.)


Why men cannot express their feelings? Being a man, even I don’t know the answer.. but what I think is:

• Men express their feelings by action more than words.
• For example..telling  “ I love you” words as an example to his partner. For men, saying these three little words require a huge effort – but the urge comes quite easily for most women.
• Similarly, in a fight, women like to dissect the emotional reasons behind the issues. But, For men? They want to skip the “Let’s talk” part, and just want to see his partner happy.

The man who always carry a smile on his face.. the truth is he is carrying lot of pain in his heart.


The man who always worried about his family and take care them warmness and love.. the truth is he needs more love and warmness..

The man who never complains about anything to anyone, he need someone to understand him without saying or telling any word…